We had some great conversation on The Sanctuary podcast a couple weeks ago, exploring topics like slutting, kink, porn & community organizing. The video is now out! How do we collectively break free of shame? What do porn, sex & community look like when we embrace the beautiful awkward messiness of human connection?
That feeling when your sex partner has been trying and trying and trying to cum, and then when they finally do, itβs long and intense and goes eeeeverywhere π€€ππ
It doesn't matter if the Dom is on top, has the sub held down, tied up, confined or restrained, as long as it's consensual sex, ultimately the sub is still the one in charge - they're the establishing the "hell yes" and "no" boundaries, and creating the container for what's happening. That's why submission during kink is radically different from and can be a way to heal disempowering sexual or interpersonal experiences. It plays out similar dynamics, but in the context of choice, consent, autonomy and personal power. So, when I say "pin me down", go for it hard because it actually lifts me up π
I usually get up pretty early but sometimes sleeping in feels glorious, especially if it's a slow Sunday with nothing much going on and you can complement it with some lazy morning sex. If that's you today, I highly recommend this position - my friend recently told me it's called "lazy man's doggy", the name feels perfect π
Dressed, ready & headed out the door π Four people have come from out of state for this shoot, damn, gratitude! Iβm excited to show you the props, I spent a total of $20 on all of them and it took three people several hours of teamwork to assemble hehehe I love the perverted collective creative process
Tonight in a couple hours! Fuck me harder Santa π π My friend let me borrow his Christmas tree for the scene & he knows me so he said "just wipe the squirt off it before you give it back" π€£
Shameless gym bathroom selfie for you π I just finished weightlifting class, my body is feeling pretty good & tight - strong, ready for some fun this evening. I wonder if my ass will be equally tight? π
Sex with new, anonymous people is exciting, and it's also possible to feel chemistry and a spark with someone early. But I find that intellectual and emotional connection with someone, especially through trust deepened over time, takes sex to another level. What do you think?
Personal life story time, if you're into that sort of thing π
I've been super busy with the computer work side of building the business - editing 149 videos, preview clips, etc., creating marketing materials, working on website development, production company infrastructure, planning the calendar for next year, etc. I've also been in a more contemplative month, reading a lot, journaling, meditating, spending time with my kiddo, staying home, being frugal. I've still been fucking a lot with a variety of people (of course, I'm still me π€£), I just haven't had an interest in spending money and time on going out right now.
The people in my personal life who I've felt closest to lately are the people who have gotten that and jumped in - who have spent time making home cooked meals with me, taking my kiddo to free community events, helping me with business tasks. On Monday, I went with my kiddo, a partner and his kiddo to an activity my kiddo really enjoyed. It made me feel supported and closer to him and as a direct result, we had the hottest sex we've had (IMHO) during his lunch break on Thursday.
I told another partner about this (hurray poly compersion!) and he reflected that, while I identify as pansexual (meaning I'm attracted to people of all genders), he thinks of me as also being sapiosexual, meaning I'm more sexually aroused by emotional or intellectual connection with someone else.
I don't normally associate myself with the term sapiosexual because I've heard some people use it to say they're *only* into fucking people if they have that connection, and of course you know that's not true, hahaha. But it is definitely the case that feeling understood and supported by someone in my platonic life makes me more sexually open to and hungry for them later. It was interesting that my partner referred to this as a sexual identity, though. I've always kind of assumed that was true for most everyone, that that's part of how sexuality works. When you're feeling trust and connection with someone, when you're feeling loved and supported by them in other aspects of your life, you have more intimate and meaningful sex.
What do you think? Feel free to DM me about it, I'd love to hear your personal perspective on the matter!
Porn as education! Been doing some hands-on "how to" videos about blowjobs, squirt, consent, initiating sex, queer bodies & more!
Fun times: at the end of "Squirting 101", I was talking to the camera and did not notice until editing later on that @rowanvoid was over there being a goof with the dildo π€£ π₯°
Life is a balance: you do the work and take care of the people, but then to be your best self, you also gotta clock off. By next Saturday night, that view is gonna look preeeetty different, because all this milf wants for Christmas is my husband to whore out my ass π
Hehe that's right - I listen to you & combined 3 of the scene proposals you voted most for! Christmas anal big group scene coming soon... I'm making some of the props today, you better believe it's gonna be campy and silly AF cuz you know me, I like to roll hardcore *and* goofy π π
π π€€ DM me for New Full-Length Video π π€€ - Cumming from his cock in my ass and mouth
He knows how I go: push my head on that hard cock, growl "good girl" and I'm a puddle. I came from the way he looked at me while I sucked him, from the ruthless lube-free anal fuck, from the taste of my cunt, squirt and ass on his cock, from the perfect dick bounce we got going. In the scene, we imagine we're meeting outside the hotel for the first time, but you can't hide this long-term friend chemistry. Connection makes me wet π
I don't need you to be mine forever, but when we fuck, I want to give all we have to this moment of connection. Sometimes that's through eye contact and deep kisses, but even synchronizing a perfect dick bounce can feel a lot like taking a ride through the universe together.
Feels good to wake up to that hard dick grinding up against me... 15 min later, before the world gets moving, I'm used, stuffed deep and lips spread wide. Starting Monday morning off right π
"G spot is not between the legs
The G spot is between the ears"
- dead prez
Meditating, reading, journaling, thinking, imagining, connecting... Sexuality isn't just made in the gym, club or bed. Intelligence is sexy π
π¦π³οΈβπNew Full-Length Video π¦π³οΈβπ - Taming the Pony: A Kinky Queer 18-Person Orgy
I arrive to a party where a group of queer people are sitting around. But I'm a horny, slutty unicorn and the sexy party guests get me rabid with desire. Before long, sex is in the air and everyone is fucking.
I suck clits, dicks and dildos, get fucked in the cunt and ass by fingers, dicks and dildos, and squirt everywhere. There are people on all the beds and couches, making out, in dick/clit oral trains, and riding dildos and dicks.
I'm get so wild that I need to be tied up. Two femdoms take turns with me, while I pound another partygoer's ass. It's a loud, kinky mess... until finally at the end of the party, I've gone weak, a happily tamed pony.
Full video available via message! π
Tell-tale signs of an urgent, unplanned, off-camera quickie: clothes still on, pink pussy from being turned on but not red like I was hard fucked, deep creampie takes minutes to drip outβ¦ This is a great way to say goodbye to a friend at the end of a hangout π
π β€οΈ Grateful every day for the in-person and online community we're building, centered on people loving each other for their honest authentic selves
Sweet lil unicorn likes to be cum-stuffed bred. Innocent girl next door likes filthy kink. When fantasy mirrors reality.. π Creepy Halloween foursome in your DMs today
Naked cuddles are great.. Someone recently asked me if there's anything in between NSA and a relationship. My answer: "Infinite things!"
Examples:
- Acquaintances who occasionally get together in the dark of night just to fuck
- Friends who do daytime activities together, share emotional connection and also fuck
- Friends who do daytime activities together and fuck only when in a group of other swinger friends
- Friends who do daytime activities together, share emotional connection and naked cuddle one-on-one
- Friends who daytime activities together and naked cuddle only in a group of cuddle-y friends
Etc etc etc etc
I got to stay up late talking and naked cuddling with a visiting out-of-town friend earlier this week and was reminded of this gem. Hope there's some of that in your life! π
ππ»ββοΈ New Full-Length Video ππ»ββοΈ - Hotwife's Personal Trainer
My husband likes that his whore wife is fit and strong. But he knows - and you know - that a girl doesn't just wake up one day and discover she has muscles!
That's why he's all about it when I schedule a session with a personal trainer. I workout harder when I have a little motivation...
And when he comes home at the end of the day, he likes to taste the motivation. Sometimes it's spilling out of my cunt; this time it was all over my lips π
Returning to normal life after 2 incredible weeks of nonstop shootsβ¦ I look forward to showing you the content soon because holy fuck some of those scenes were hot, but for right now, time to stretch. When life is full, itβs important to remember to take care of your body π