What’s the most positive happy moment from the past that made you who you are today? Dig deep and think about the best memories, trips, and the people who made you smile, laugh, and live life to the fullest. Start focusing on small basic easy steps to bring back that childhood or happy feeling into your life today. What are you going to do TODAY to feel that way again? We deserve to be our most excellent version. The more we learn and share ways to be friendly, nice, kind, and caring, we can change habits for the better. We need to start somewhere because the small changes can turn into great amazing life-turning events for the better. Start learning and loving yourself first. The more I speak, write, and learn my truth, the more I grow as a happy, healthier person for you and others. Join me, and I would love to hear your stories.
How did I become who I am today? So many stories and life events make us who we are. I learned from my family and friends to be kind, courteous, caring, genuine, and keep being the best we can be. What can you do today to be your most excellent version? Say hello to someone. Ask them how they are? Do they need anything? Remember to say please and thank you. Listen, learn and keep growing! Smile at someone today. A smile is contagious, and if you smile at one, many others will be smiling today. We need to start somewhere, and your smiling makes me smile. Could you send me a picture of you smiling below? xoxo, DR #drresa @drresa
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What one material thing, ex)house, car, shoes, jewelry, would be the hardest to get rid of? When I moved to NYC Mr. Grey, my car my only real asset left in my name I finally sold. I had my car for ten y*rs, and it safely, drove Romeo & me cross country. I highly recommend everyone & anyone to make a road trip & or go on a trip alone! Life-changing & every day, I'm learning how to slow down & enjoy the moments. I will miss my car, but it's just stuff. I was still finding Bailey pug hairs between the car seats. Her dog hair was the worst, but she taught me so much and those snorts... miss her. On June 5, 2013, she passed away & it seems like my path since then has been much more spiritual. A few months before that, I moved to San Francisco & was getting my doctorate in Human Sexuality. A new city, trying to m*eet new friends, going to school & my Bailey my pug of 13 y*rs passed. It was a tough time for me, but I stayed positive & still kept my life together. M*et amazing people living in SF & so many stories & memories I cherish, and I will never forget!! But, I still didn't feel like SF was home. After living in SD for 18 y*rs before SF...Wow, a long time SD was home. I got my bachelor's in marketing, built my life, a home, biz, and many friends. Wild crazy 20s & 30s in SD! (I can write blog stories forever on my SD lifestyle!) Interested? I can keep writing, but my main point today is Stuff! Have you thought about a Minimalist Lifestyle? Have you read the book The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up-The Japanese art of decluttering & organizing?
Less Stuff, fewer Bills, No Debt, Less Stress! What matters in life? Being loved, loving someone. Food, shelter, health... What matters to you? I would love to hear below... I already know politics is always going to get in the way. Especially now...The worst I have ever seen. I sold my house almost 7 y*rs ago in SD. I felt like a shift was happening. At that time, I didn't know Trump was running or going to become President. Just a feeling Big Changes are happening. Did you feel that way? Are you feeling that way now? The more stuff I had, the more bills and the more stress. For what? Money, power, image, control. xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
(FYI) I did not write this but wow. It is worth the read and the share.
I hear there’s a bounty on my womb.
A high price in the currency
of power and control.
In the currency
of violence
and cowardice.
You want to make a home in this body.
Penetrate it with your power and lust and demand I carry the seed you’ve planted pretending to protect the sacred when we both know your concern is for birth
and not for life.
I’ve seen the way you watch
as y*oung mouths go unfed
as y*oung arms are torn from their mother’s embrace
as y*oung bodies are r*aped and ravaged and locked away
in the land of the free
and home of the brave.
You read me ghost stories
from the good book
about purity
and innocence
and all the ways my body is wrong
and all the ways my body does not belong to me.
But I prefer different fairy tales.
The ones that were woven from an
ancient mother’s womb
whispered to her from deep in the earth.
The ones that teach me
that I am fire and water
that I am land and thunder
that I am holy and sacred
that I am the great creator and destroyer
that I belong to me
and only me
and I alone
will decide.
I hear there’s a bounty on my womb
but you seem to forget
that I am the huntress
and I can smell the fear
dripping from your cowardly words
and I dare you to try and hold my fire
in your bare, trembling hands.
- Poem by Gina Puorro
Visit https://ginapuorro.com to join the waitlist for her upcoming book of poetry.
When was the last time you got into lingerie, bathing suits, birthday suits, aka naked? If you are interested in more sexy photos, videos, blogs, please share, subscribe, like and become a sexy patron by joining my upgrades. Link on Bio! Your word of mouth helps, so don’t forget to join, share, repost, like, comment on my Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, Tiktok, Fancentro, Reddit, Snapchat, and Patreon and let's start having more orgasms to make every day a better world! Have a sexy wonderful day. You deserve it! Xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Do you enjoy being alone to really learn & love yourself? The past five years starting with my sexy warrior road trip was an awakening & a trip of a lifetime. Driving cross country to NYC, I was finally home 🏡 with my Romeo Blue. I was not always alone through my journey. Romeo, my Shih Tzu mix, kept me laughing, enjoying moments & showing me to slow down & love this beautiful country! Yes, we are going through a crazy world right now & it's waking some of us up & maybe you don't want to be alone & if you are ready to talk, I'm here for you!!! I offer sex, relationship, and confidence coaching. xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
#MayMasturbation Month is coming soon. Are you ready for weekly and soon a whole month of Masturbation tips? Are you interested in sex, relationship & confidence coaching PODCAST? Where can you listen and watch the videos on Youtube dot com /drresa? Update me on what kind of IDEAS, TOPICS you are interested in? Below or send me a Private Message.
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Would you travel by yourself? Would you go to the movies by yourself? Would you go to dinner by yourself? Spicy ones are you ready to try something on your own! What are you going to do by yourself for at least an hour today? Start small!! Please comment below and tell me how you felt before, during, and after. It may be different, difficult, or out of your comfort zone to do something on your own instead of having a friend, a partner, or a family member with you. What would you do sitting by yourself at a restaurant or sitting alone at the movies? Could you drive cross country on your own (or bring an animal along to keep you company.) I have done all of these by myself, and yes, it is change; it could be scary, there could be challenges, but otherwise, it grows us to be a better person. I m*eet amazing people when I am not with someone. It gets me out of my routine to say hello to someone new. While traveling to different places, you m*eet all walks of life, and you open your eyes to a whole new world. In 2015 I finished the book The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying. After I read it, I started the process and got rid of many things that did not bring me joy. It cleared my mind from stuff, I never knew where anything was, and I realized what is important to my life moving forward. I was ready to move to New York City, but I knew I had to get rid of my properties and lessen my anxiety. I loved my home, but I was ready for the next chapter. In 2016 Romeo, my Shih Tzu mix dog, and I drove from San Francisco to NYC. We took our time at a dude ranch, Yellowstone, Mt Rushmore, Chicago, and enjoying our spicy warrior road trip. My book coming soon of the best trip I have ever been on & a blog on how Kon Mari Tidy up changed my life. Big news my e-commerce website is launched for you to book coaching sessions, buy streams and toys. xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Have you experienced the Sybian yet? What about trying a striptease lap dance on a Sybian? Good times! Please check out my videos and start practicing. The more hot juicy wet stories we try and experience in life and or on the Sybian, we are living a sexy new adventurous life. If you're not living that way, let’s start right NOW? Let’s figure out what you want, what you are passionate about, what you desire, what kind of relationships you are looking for, what type of sex and orgasms you wish to experience, and this will lead you to the most important part of your life being happy. Let’s start NOW tonight. Go out and enjoy your night. Dress up who you really are and what you really want to be! Get into a sexy outfit or costume, and be YOU. It feels good; it feels natural and even scary. Get uncomfortable, be different and or normal and have fun! We are human and alive and want to be our authentic selves.
Are you ready for some hot sexy videos and pictures of me on the Sybian? Please tell me your thoughts, ideas, and stories of this sex toy to win some photos? Check my OF and CB Live, and Youtube videos & please subscribe to youtube dot com/ drresa to check out more videos. Many more sexy, healthy, positive topics are coming soon. Your word of mouth helps, so please share, subscribe, like and become a sexy patron by joining! Don’t forget to join, share, repost, like, comment on my Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, Twitter, and Tiktok. Let's start having more orgasms to make every day a better world! Have a sexy wonderful day. You deserve it! Xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Who loves listening to podcasts? Would you listen to me if I had my own podcast? A couple of years ago I finally started my podcast, but you need to be passionate, persistent, and patient with anything. My podcast is still in the works but please enjoy, watch listen to my youtube dot com /drresa until I launch my podcast again. I upload weekly a new Youtube video just for you. Go subscribe, share, like, comment! Remember to breathe, connect, learn, love, and remember we are all here from an orgasm so let’s start masturbating and connecting with ourselves one orgasm at a time. What is your story? Come explore and live your life to the fullest! xoxo, DR #drresa @drresa
Tap your Tulips Tuesdays or Thursday! What is Tap Your Tulips?
We have 12 main Acupuncture meridians, and 7 of them cross in the chest and torso area. When we connect these meridians together, it makes the shape of a tulip stem, leaf, and flower. When we tap (using our index, middle, and ring fingers) this tulip shape around each breast and down the stem on both sides of our body, we move the lymph, energy, and b*lood flow in our body, vital to maintaining health.
Why Tuesdays or Thursdays? Since Breast (lung and heart) health is vital, promoting it once a week is an excellent place to start. We also love things that rhyme.
Tap Your Tulips Tuesdays! Lara Koljonen CEO & Founder of Essentially Pink Leading the Breast Health Movement. She is a dear friend who inspires me every day! I believe and love her vision and always will support you. Love you, lady, 🙂
Every Tuesday/Thursday, look out for Tap Your Tulip Tuesdays breast health exercises, sexy, inspirational quotes, articles, stories, and more! Share Below tap your tulip breast health stories and photos! The more you share, the more we can learn from each other. Lookout in May— I am launching my new and improved Dr.Resa Sexy Sexologist Website with Blogs, Webinars, Ebooks, Plus Much more! Get ready for Giveaways, Contests, Quizzes to win amazing prizes! Share, Follow and spread the Word. Remember you are sexy, get to know yourself & love your life to the fullest potential. Be your authentic sexual self! Follow xoxo, DR #drresa @drresa
Do you give blow jobs? Do you enjoy giving blow jobs? Do you love steak? Yesterday was Blow Job Steak Day! What are your BJ Steak stories? Share below your blow job tips, tricks, and the best way to cook a delicious piece of meat. Remember you are sexy, confident, worth it & enjoy your steak and blow job day! Love you, sexy ones! Xoxo 💋 drresa.com @drresa
Want to know what MM? It has many health benefits!!! It relieves stress, helps you relax, sleep better, helps treat sexual problems, relieves PMS, builds body positivity, self-confidence and helps your sex life. Want to learn more? Like, follow, subscribe, join, donate, spoil, share, tip, token, join my #drresa Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Tiktok, Youtube, Reddit, Tumblr, Snapchat, Patreon, Fancentro, and more to get more healthy positive posts!
Lookout in May— I am launching my new and improved Website with Blogs, Webinars, Ebooks, Plus Much more! Get ready for Giveaways, Contests, Quizzes to win amazing prizes! Share, Follow and spread the Word. Remember, you are confident beautiful inside & out! Love yourself, get to know yourself & love your life to the fullest potential. Be your authentic self! xoxo, DR #dresa @drresa
What is your #1 passion? When you wake up in the morning what makes you feel alive? (And it’s not coffee:)) If you know the answer right away, please comment below! It sounds like your living the life you deserve and your working hard and loving every moment. If you don’t know your number 1 passion will this spark up the flame? Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? You will find my answer on how to get your fire back with drresa dot com coaching! Remember you are sexy, confident, brave & worth it. Love you sexy ones! Xoxo 💋 DR @drresa #drresa
Do you want to hear me talking about my dating life? What about sexy #selfcare ideas? I would love to talk about that, but politics get in the way, and if we don’t speak our truth and fix these issues, myself and many others will go away. What that means-all online dating, social sites, porn sites, and anything sexual. Many more sex video/toy stores & strip clubs will shut their doors. Wake up, America. We need to make America sexy again or finally. That means loving yourself & knowing your passions, beliefs, and desires. Take away what your family, work, religion, politics, friends want, but what do you want? Trump is organizing a dictatorship, terrorist/hate groups right in front of our eyes. It’s been there all along but hates and dividing the world is because of power, money, control, and religion is the entryway to brainwashing you. Trump is speaking to his voters and his cult.
Separation of church and state the first amendment is a crock of shit. It’s been happening for years. There is an underground government & religion, and it’s called The Family. Watch it on Netflix. Have you heard of the prayer breakfast? They pray to Jesus and talk conservative ways, and if you don’t believe in this, you are nothing to them. Trump was building his kingdom, his terrorist and hate groups, and it will get worse & scarier with Trump and McConnell. Thank god out of the office! This is happening worldwide because of phones in our hands, media/ news we choose to watch & read, and who we spend time with. Do you know how people become manipulated, brainwashed, and a dictatorship? It’s been making for years to make America great again, and they finally had their king. No voice shut the fuck up queen just like the conservative, right wings like and everyone who is not traditional, not religious enough; we are nothing. It’s 2022; we need to wake up & realize we are everything, we are sexy, we are human, we are alive. Please register to vote & vote in November 2022! Love you, sexy! 💋 xoxo 💋 DR #drresa @drresa
Have you tried anal sex? Are you thinking about trying anal sex? If you consider any kind of sex but specifically anal sex I recommend getting tested for STD’s, wearing condoms and using a lot of lube. Communicating with your partner about sex positive healthy questions before a sexual act is a smart, safe, fun way to start learning consent and boundaries. Do you know kids are having more anal sex because they think they are still virgins and pure. This is why we need to VOTE and have sex education in schools and teach kids & parents the healthy parts of sexual health and sex positivity. Do you vote? Are you Registered to Vote? Please remember to Register to Vote today! This is a Human Lovely Voice we still have and that is to VOTE!! Please comment below that you Registered! Voting is sexy and our body is sexier! Ready to be your true authentic sexual self? Start asking yourself questions and exploring your passions. What do you really love and enjoy? Building your confidence and self love helps you learn about yourself. This will help you attract healthy sex positive partners, relationships, jobs, and enhance your sexy wonderful life! What questions would you ask yourself? What questions would you ask your partner? Share below and I will send you a FREE 10 sexy healthy positive questions to ask a new partner? Remember you are sexy, confident, beautiful inside & out! Love yourself, get to know yourself & love your life to the fullest potential. Be your authentic sexual self! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa @drresa
Do you remember what life was like before cell phones? Do you miss times when people would talk, not take pictures of everything and live life at that moment? What would you do if you didn’t have your cell phone for 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, or even 1 y*r? Do you get a lot done when you use your phone, or do you waste more time swiping, scrolling, and doing things that don’t really matter? Do you get on your phone more when you have anxiety or when you get shy, and it’s your security blanket? I am guilty, just like you. It’s a bad habit that we are all doing, and we are not living our lives as we did before. You may have never experienced life without a phone, and now it’s strapped to us every moment of our life. With our phones in our hands, we forget how to communicate, look up and say hi or smile and even hug or hold our partner or friend's hands. We are turning into robots moving along in this crazy world. We don’t even need a chip in our bodies. They know where we are, who we are, and what we are doing. There are many positives of having everything and anything at our fingertips using our phones. I love that I can travel cross country and use my phone to book hotels, map where I am going, connect with family and friends and work anywhere and everywhere! My passion, my livelihood, and my business are in the sex industry world. Luckily I can build my brand globally by using my phone, the internet, and these crazy social media platforms. Plus, we don’t even have to leave our homes to m*eet a partner. Just swipe right, and you may get lucky. Are you ready to take time off your phone & start dancing, moving, and feeling your body? Put some music on but wait, do you have to use your cell for that? 🙂 I still have CDs, records, and my favorite Amazon Prime Alexa. Remember, you are sexy, confident, brave, and worth it. Did you know I offer sex, relationship, confidence coaching? Check my drresa dot com. Please join one or all the different social media platforms I am on and choose what best fits your needs. xoxo, DR #drresa @drresa
What are you going to change Today to Educate your friends your peers your family Yourself to not Repeat History? I believe Sex Education is crucial & mandatory in schools, in homes & in your own daily lives. The more we love ourselves and learn about ourselves through touch and sexual healthy ways we share & pass it on. Don't always follow what everyone else says & does! Follow your heart & keep showing love compassion & showing love instead of hate! Xoxo 💋 DR @drresa #drresa
Do you know what a sexologist is? Comment YES below & like all my sexy photos! The more yes’s I get, the more people get to hear my essential words! Today I’m talking about my life before I became a sexologist. It was at SDSU that my interest in human sexuality first emerged. With my newfound self-confidence, I put myself through undergrad as an exotic dancer. I found it very empowering, and that did wonders for my self-esteem. My newly heightened sexual awareness piqued my interest and made me think of how I could share my experiences to help other people who were going through the same types of struggles that I went through.
I received my Bachelor’s degree in business and marketing from SDSU and decided to start a business teaching every-day women how to incorporate dancing and striptease into their lives. I also produced DVDs based on my classes.
I wasn’t particularly ashamed or scared of my body, but I spent a lot of time in my head. Despite being a dancer with high self-esteem and being in tune with my body, I didn’t have my first orgasm until I was 31.
Over the past 15 y*rs, I’ve taught hundreds of classes and workshops. I have also hosted many events and parties revolving around sexuality and personal awareness. Women come to learn particular moves and ways to express themselves through dance, but it’s clear that they are searching for more. We talk about sex in an open, non-judgmental way. The information and advice I provide enable people to walk away with higher education and self-confidence. Besides, they often begin building a supportive community with other people who want each other to thrive.
I realized that what I loved about the work I was doing in these classes was talking to people about sex, relationships, and confidence. I wanted to help them discover and explore their true sexual selves and guide them on a path toward loving themselves completely. Interested in more go to drresa dot com xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
What superhero are you? What superpower would you have? Would you be invisible, heal, power, endurance, invulnerability, time travel, night vision, telepathy, speed, omnilinguilism, atmokinesis, wall-crawling, precognition, time manipulation, agility, immortality, intelligence, mind control, force field, intangibility, flying! Comment below & tell me what & why! Let's speak up & have superpowers to make this world a more kind, safe place to survive, prosper & live. Love you, sexy ones! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
Have you heard of “Hoochie Coochie”? When you hear “Cooter Tutor” what do you think of? Is it a quiff sound like a fart or is it when a woman has vaginal flatulence? Or a tutor for the cooter (aka pussy) or better known as EbyResa and now Dr.Resa Sexy Sexologist! Do you know the history of striptease. During the late 1800s and early 1900s, the striptease influenced other forms of erotic dancing. A sexually provocative belly dance known as the "Hoochie Coochie" was introduced in Philadelphia & became wildly popular. Coochie & cooter are slang terms for vagina or pussy. Have you heard of Hash House Harriers or Red Dress Run? (HHH or H3) is an international group of non-competitive running social clubs. While living in San Diego I became a hasher. It's a "drinking club with a running problem." Not much of a runner but I love to walk, get dressed up, sing & have fun. Names are important to hashers. My first hash event was in 2008 in Ensenada Mexico. EbyResa just launched teaching striptease lap dance lessons. I taught a group of sexy open minded ladies striptease lap dance moves. Such a fun first at home party & a great way to start my long time passion & business. It’s been over ten years since EbyResa started & I have been teaching, moving and opening people’s minds to being sexy, confident through moving their bodies. This helps people open their life and passions to new ideas, techniques and a way to start living their authentic sexual self. I got invited to this wild crazy fun Mexico weekend with a 100 or or so hashers. Such fun and an experience of a life-time. That weekend we ran, drank, danced, flirted and I made some endless friendships. I got Hash named Cooter Tutor. Perfect fitting and a original name for myself. It fits perfectly and yes if you fuck me right I may quiff 🙂 xoxo 💋 DR #drresa @drresa
Why is it important to Tap your Tulips? Do you love getting a massage, or do you enjoy giving massages? Our bodies need the love of massage and touch but don’t forget our breasts. What about using a vibrator or the Sybian on your breast? The breast, especially the nipples, are extremely sensitive and would be enjoyable to stimulate from a vibrator. “Breast health is movement. Moving your lymph tissue, moving your body’s energy and b*lood flow.” @lara_koljonen #essentiallypink
Move the vibrator, Sybian, or hands around your breasts, nipples, chest, stomach and get to know your tulips. Let's activate the 6 acupuncture and acupressure points around our breasts shaped like a tulip. Massage each point for 6 to 9 seconds and move to the next tulip point! Take three fingers and tap your tulips all around the breast to activate, move and get to know and love your breasts! Do this alone or with a partner every day or on Tap your Tulip Tuesdays.
Remember you are sexy, get to know yourself & love your life to the fullest potential. Be your authentic sexual self! Are you Interested in more sexy photos, videos, blogs? Your word of mouth helps so, please share, subscribe, like and become a sexy patron by joining my Dr. Resa Patreon page. Don’t forget to join, share, repost, like, comment on my Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, and Patreon and let's start having more orgasms to make every day a better world! Have a sexy wonderful day; you deserve it! Xoxo, DR #drresa @drresa
I am ready to be vulnerable show my life, my ups and downs, my insecurities and be REAL TRUE to You and Me. Showing my REAL SELF I can Help you BE Your Greatest Version and Live The Sexy Confident Life You Deserve!! Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? ….xoxo 💋DR @drresa #drresa
Squat is the next sexy move for your Sexy Striptease. Hip roll, splits or squat are ways to get on the floor slow and sexy. Only try the splits if you are advanced and stretched out. The rest of us will do the squat. Remember to tighten your stomach, put your feet hip width apart and bend your knees slowly down. My favorite teasing flirting move is when your knees are bent almost to the ground and your legs are open. Try the come hither in this position. Look at your partner with your sultry eyes, smile and take your ring finger and curl it up towards you. (If they get up say no sit on down baby) The sneaky peak is before you get naked use your hands and fingers and tease with your body and clothes. You can slap, spider fingers up to your genitals and show your naughty side and take your underwear to the side for a peak. From here hip roll back up or slowly bend your knees to the ground for floor routines. (Not recommended for weak knees and or use a chair or between a door for balance.) Practice, turn it into a great butt and leg workout while you are building confidence and having fun. Feel sexy feel good! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa @drresa
Do you give blow jobs? Do you enjoy giving blow jobs? When was the last time you gave a blow job to your partner? Some other terms to use is fellatio, oral sex, cock sucking, giving head, and blow joy.
Do you know I teach a fellatio Bj hand job workshop? This class builds confidence, sex appeal plus I introduce you to different oral sex techniques and hand job moves. You will learn different positions, swallow or not to swallow and much more. Do you need to deep throat to give a fantastic blow job? In this class, we practice on bananas, cucumbers, carrots, dildos, and we learn the importance of lube or lotion. Did you know I offer online sex, bj, relationship coaching services? Coming soon you can order ebooks, webinars, and online courses. Are you interested in signing up?
What do you think of this quote, “Swallow spit don't let it sit”? Next time you are exploring oral sex, please remember when your partner cums in your mouth swallow it quickly, spit it out right away and or don’t let it sit in your mouth. You don’t need them to cum in your mouth for a great blow job. You can ask them to cum on your body or a towel.
Tip 2: Do you floss your teeth? Do not floss your teeth 4 hours or less on your next make out oral session! Tip 3: if your partner loves blow jobs & your not giving them oral sex, they may be getting it from someone else or at least thinking about it. Today is the day to start learning, loving yourself. The more you connect and get to know you, the more confident you will be to give to others.
Please comment below, like, subscribe and share my videos, blogs, and information. Remember you are hot, confident, brave, and worth it. Love you sexy ones. Xoxo, DR drresa dot com @drresa #drresa
Did you know you can use a door jam as part of your striptease dance? Did you know you can use it while doing the hip roll or the squat? Using a door jam helps you use the sides to help you balance and get up sexy! Do you know how to pole dance? Instead of a pole (because most people don't have one), you can enjoy basic sexy moves using one side of the door jam. Who would have thought! The way I learned was through practice. That is with anything you do. First, put on some sexy music you feel sensual and excited to move. Next, put on an outfit, a costume, your bra & underwear, or after a shower while naked. The first step is standing between the door jam with your feet hip-width apart. Now put your hands on both sides of the door jam and move your hips side by side. The second step is to squat.Slowly bend your knees and from there, stick up your butt and come up. Are your legs burning and your butt firming up? You can turn this dance into a striptease workout if you do this enough. Are you interested in learning more striptease and lap dance moves? Check out my new e-commerce drresa dot com website and order the DVDs where you can stream them on your computer or phone right away!! Here's the summary for the How to striptease for your partner DVD.In this Striptease 101 DVD series, professional striptease dancer and teacher Dr. Resa brings years of experience into your home to help you build your confidence. With step-by-step instruction, you will soon find yourself able to combine all of Resa's sexy moves into a sultry striptease for your partner. Learn to do spicy hip-rolls, sexy squats, and beautiful crawl combinations with the confidence of a professional. Resa makes it all happen in the comfort of your living room or bedroom. This instructional DVD is for every age, shape, and size. And while you will achieve the full strengthening and toning benefits of exercise, you won't even notice the workout! Check below!! xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Are you confident? What is stopping you from being confident and sexy? Could it be the four fears of confidence? This world teaches us fear through religion, politics, and media. They use real/fake news and fear-mongering strategies. Are you ready to learn the four worries of confidence? First, we need to change our habits and start working on four ways to be confident and make this world, religion, and the political world more proactive and add more positivity to our lives. 1. Fear of being yourself. It would help if you conquered the fear. Your homework is to write down your anxiety by being yourself. What people think of you, what they dislike you, and why people won’t accept you. 2. Fear of self-promotion is afraid of reactions, responses, and what others think of our work, website, blog, etc. Are you afraid people won’t support or like what you are promoting? You need to take action, move forward, and make things happen. 3. Fear of criticism “thoughtless disapproval” of the masses. Are you in fear of others being critical and quick to judge? Write a list of fear about criticism and negative thoughts, and lack of support. You need to crush worries over criticism and identify them and then ask yourself if it's that bad. Most of the time, it is not.
4. Fear of making mistakes- we all make mistakes, which is part of self-improvement by breaking down walls and getting back up. Are you ready to make progress, learn, be self-aware and less fearful in this world and become more confident?
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What is it like to date, get married, have sex, have kids, and or masturbate with people from different cultures? Are you dating someone who is from a different country than you? I love m*eeting people from all walks of life and learning all about them. I dated an Indian guy for over two years, and we had a fantastic relationship. When it came down to culture, family, and religion in my heart and gut, there were issues already forming. Plus, I have been in the sex industry world for many years. Culture or not, it's hard to wrap your head around that one because it's such a taboo. Communication is essential in any relationship, especially when both people are from different walks of life.
We ended our relationship on excellent terms, and I always want the best for him. I recommend learning and being open to communicating, and making sure you both are on the same page. Do you think this is very important to do before you get married and have kids? When you date someone from a different culture than you, you gain an entirely new view of the world. You learn all about their food, language, religion, their holidays, and their values. Some tips I recommend is to take time and find out what the two of you have in common, and all differences aside, learn to enjoy those things. Please avoid trying to change someone with your viewpoints or cultural practices. It’s essential to be clear about what you want from a partnership but be respectful. Do not make assumptions about family expectations, traditions, food preferences, etiquette, or anything else. Remember to ask questions and take time, and get to know them. Dating someone new and from a different culture, you will learn many new lessons, you will bring both worlds together, and your life will be an adventure. Dating in 2022, you have so many platforms to m*eet all different people. Go out, explore but be smart, safe, and see what happens. Please comment below, like, subscribe and share my videos, blogs, and information. Remember, you are hot, confident, brave, and worth it. Love you sexy ones. Xoxo, DR drresa.com @drresa #drresa
What are your habits, vices, or routine? These habits could be bad for your health, for your happiness, or just not normal. We are all normal but different. Society, your family, your religion, politics, work, and so on... makes mostly your decisions and choices for you. Is that true? The vices we see in public like smoking, eating, drinking, tanning, swearing, plastic surgery & social media scrolling. What do you do behind closed doors? Where most people see you, you are normal, but when you are alone, what are your vices? Could it be drugs-prescription or illegal, fetishes or fantasies that you think of, or role play? Do you masturbate and watch porn, have sex, eat, and many other vices we are doing? Are you enjoying what you are doing, or does it become a habit? Are these habits good or bad, true or false, healthy or unhealthy? You are the only one who knows. Are you making all these habits for yourself or involving others. If you bring someone else into your life, please remember to use consent. This is a must and very important. What is consent, and how will you know if they are saying yes or no? Consent is permission for something to happen or agreement to do something. Are you ready to try a how-to Striptease & Lap Dance DVD and 52 ways to strip and lap dance for you and your partner? You can buy my EbyResa DVDs on Amazon and the DVD steaming on my new e-commerce site that launches early next week!!! We all have our own vices, excellent or bad. I have had many different ones that I still enjoy, and they became a habit, and I chose to accept life without them. Some are a struggle to give up especially having anxiety. I am ready to be the most excellent version, so I choose healthy, smart, fun ways to live my life. We are all normal, sexy, and different in our way. This makes you special, unique & more alive. Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? Come explore your journey with me!!! xoxo DR @drresa #drresa
Have you traveled overseas to another country? Where have you been & where would you go? Romeo & I love to travel. We travel mostly to CA- LA, SD & SF. My favorite trip so far was in late 2016. Romeo & I went on a sexy warrior road trip from CA to NYC. We took 60 days driving cross country and took our time enjoying a dude ranch, Yellowstone, Mount Rushmore, Chicago & many other amazing places throughout America. Could you travel on your own? Where would you go & what would you do? I highly recommend trying it sometime. Start with dinner & a movie by yourself. Next time book a hotel room & enjoy your time taking a bath, getting room service, watching stupid TV & sleep! Doesn’t that sound like a perfect day! Are you interested in reading a book on our sexy warrior road trips? Coming soon! In 2019, Romeo & I flew to Cambodia! My good friends were living there with their doggie Gryffindor! It was our longest flight together. Luckily, Romeo is the easiest traveler. If he is with me, he is happy and vice versa. That 6 week trip was awesome and since then we have been on many random adventures. What is your favorite trip or adventure that you have been on? Who is ready to explore? Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? You are sexy; you are confident you are funtastic! Take time to breathe, smile & be the best you can be! Love you, sexy ones! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa @drresa
