As a coach I get asked often, why am I never satisfied or ha..
Added 2021-12-04 01:50:54 +0000 UTCAs a coach I get asked often, why am I never satisfied or happy no matter how much I earn / how many followers I have / how muscular I become / how many things I own / how much sex I get? My answers: Realize you have enough. We don't need to work more in order to spend and consume more and accumulate more. No amount of inner emptiness can be alleviated with sex, for most often mistakens as true happiness.With the inevitable fading of the illusory, short-lived orgasm/ sensual pleasure comes the feeling of loneliness, guilt and shame, self blame, hatred and anger as this denotes a pathological form of chronic wantingness well known to society as an endless drive for relationship, sex, materialism, hoarding, addictions and more. These are merely temporary pleasures you borrow to cover up your inner sufferings. We often use outer wealth to cover up our inner poverty. We have more than enough conditions to be happy right here, right now. There is nothing to, no more agenda, nothing to achieve, nothing to do, nowhere to go. Let go of your notions of happiness that our society made you believe. Let go of your belief systems. Let go of the things and conditions that you THINK you need for happiness. Just be. We are human being, not human earning/doing/having. The moment you decide to embrace your innate perfect wholeness. And you are free. There is no way to happiness, happiness is the way. - Thich Nhat Hanh
