How did you convince Lana into the LS ? Alex: When I met he..

How did you convince Lana into the LS ? Alex: When I met her, I was a single guy in the lifestyle and a bull. I always slightly envied the couples I was with for their level of openness and intimacy. I wanted a similar relationship for myself - something fun, fresh, uninhibited, honest and open. So, when I went on dates with women, I almost always casually mentioned about my extracurricular activities to gage their response. Most of them were not into it, say the least, so I was not really interested in pursuing them. When I met Lana, I told her about what I was doing, expecting the usual look of disgust mixed with confusion. Instead, she surprised me and asked me to tell her more about it. I could see that the innocent looking cute girl was genuinely interested. We started dating casually, and I quickly discovered that her sexuality was unmatched to anything I previously experienced. The sexual chemistry was great and I was amazed by how much she loved sex and was eager to experiment and try new things. I never met a girl before which could lose herself so much in the moment and simply enjoy it. I asked her be my gf. Few months into our relationship, I brought up the possibility of swinging together. I was previously married and she was a year and half removed from a break up of an eight year relationship. I told her that from my perspective, monogamy is not an option and we had a somber honest talk about it. We both agreed that sooner or later, relationships get stale and that its natural to crave variety. We agreed that it's better do it together as a couple than be tempted to get variety and excitement behind each other's back. In our conversation, she expressed to me that she was too jealous to share me. I was a little disappointed but was also hopeful becase she was willing to try. I told her we could start with small baby steps and keep talking about how we should proceed. We went to few sex clubs and the first time it was a disaster. She was nervous and drank too much, so we had to cut it short. Next time, we did better, and just watched. I could tell she was doing better and feeling more comfortable. Third time, we had sex in front of everyone. Another couple got close to us but we did not engage them and they couldn't last as long so they left us. All along, Lana expressed to me that she still felt uncomfortable sharing me so I suggested trying hooking up with single guys, something I had experience with. She was intrigued, but also felt guilty so I had to convince her that I was perfectly ok with our arrangement be not a 50/50 thing. From my perspective, it is mostly true. I do crave the veriety and freedom she gets, but I absolutely love it when she is uninhibited and embraces herself. Nothing turns me on more. We talked to some guys but it did not lead anywhere. Several months later, we went on a trip to Florida. We were not planing on it, but wanted to visit a local sex club and see how things go. I don't remember why, but we decided to skip the club and instead went on our own little bar crawl, something we like to do every once in a while. Along the way, we met a guy in a bar. He was a big fella, foreign born. He was very fit too and I could see in her body language that she was into him. The guy told us that he works as a model and stripper, and Lana blurbed to him that we were swingers (even though we did not yet do anything). Mr. Florida started telling us about his experiences as a bull. I shared some stories of my own and we all just clicked. When he went to the bar get drinks, I asked Lana if she was interested and she said yes. I Asked Mr Florida if he would be interested coming with us to our hotel. It was incredible to see her getting turned on so much! We had a really nice time. Here and there, I grabbed my phone and recorded few clips, trying to capture the moment. I never thought at the time that I would ever share those with anyone. Only one, one minute, clip survived. It's the one she is getting fucked by the window. To this date, people always ask for more from that encounter. I wish I had kept the clips. Honestly, I don't know what happened to them... that evening was very hot, that's for sure. In the following months we got engaged and started hooking up with guys we found on tinder and bumble. The rest, you know more or less.