Nipple play This post is about nipple play.. I will make an..

Nipple play This post is about nipple play.. I will make an instruction movie with Noortje about this tomorrow so stay tuned.. In BDSM you can use nipple play for 2 main goals. As a punishment or as an erotic treat.. (Some people also have a nipple fetish, but we will talk about fetishes another time). 😋 There are many nerves in a nipple, and each person reacts different when you touch them. I have played with many subs over the years, and I can tell you that none of them reacted the same.. It was (and still is) always a challenge for me to find out what the sub was or is into.. When I want to find out on what level a sub is I always use scales. For example I pinch the nipple and ask on what level they are feeling the pain on a scale of 1 to 10. When they say 3, I know that my sub is not in much pain and I can increase the level of pain. When they say 9, I know that I am doing it too hard and that I have to take it a step down. 😜 Personally I always start off with light clamps or laundry pins.. Especially when the sub doesn’t have much experience with nipple play.. I leave them on until I see that they can’t take it anymore, or until they ask for mercy. You can also agree an amount of time that they have to wear the clamps. And if they don’t make it then they will receive a punishment. Always keep in mind that all days are different when it comes to nipple play. Especially with female subs.. After ovulation their nipples and breasts are more sensitive, so sometimes they won’t be able to play nipple games. In some cases when your sub really can’t take it you can let them trade the nipple games for something else.. You can choose but I think it’s more fun when you make THEM choose.. And make a game out of that too.. For example when they choose something easy you can threaten to put the nipple clamps on again, or even worse that you are going to spank them now.. This is just one example out of a hundred things you can think of.. Sometimes when a sub doesn’t listen, or is not following my instructions correctly I squeeze their nipples hard to remind them who is in charge.. In my experience nipple pain is always a good way to make them more submissive and more focused. If your goal is to harden up the nipples of your sub then you can make them wear nipple clamps for a longer period. Choose something that is integrated in their life. For example when they are driving to work, answering e-mails or having diner.. And make them wear clamps when they are doing so. Start off with soft ones like laundry pins. After a few days you give them rest, and then you can use some harder ones.. And so on.. This is a good way to train nipples, and after a few weeks you can already tell the difference and your sub will be proud.. I hope this is of some use to you. If you have a question, drop it in the comments or send me a message. Xx