**this is a part 2** ***see previous post to catch up*** I ..

**this is a part 2** ***see previous post to catch up*** I find a lot of clues in the words people choose. She repeats that I am the victim, that I am abused and that I am fragile. I have never called myself “fragile.” We all become “victims” the second another person or entity makes our choices for us. Examples: The choice to have your wallet is made for you by the thief that decides to steal your wallet for themselves. ***victim of theft*** The choice to remain unvaccinated is made by the venue that decides you must be vaccinated to walk into their place. ***victim of rules*** The choice to remain in your house is made by the natural disaster that destroyed your home. ***a victim of nature*** The choice to be happy is decided by the partner who takes Happy off the table. ***domestic violence victim*** The choice to elect people to power is decided by the dictator who chooser themselves to lead. ***victim of policy*** **Abuse is when the power to decide for yourself is assumed by someone other than you and the consequences of that action leads to a NEGATIVE OUTCOME for the person not in control.** Being a victim does not always mean you are also being ABSUED. ex: my kids are the “victim” of me every single time I take a screen away and pass them bell peppers. Those kids are not being ABUSED by not being able to choose candy and movies. Right babes? ***yes ap right*** And so we need to take notice of the people who find my abuse & victim status to be one of the most fascinating features of my current existence. Not for me, but as a 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 ***red flag of abuse*** 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 I have noted that when I dial back the clocks, it was ALWAYS the people who use victim status as a way to place value on people, that end up using the very people they determine to be fragile victims, as their new one. Can I take a deeper dive? ***hold your breath*** I don’t even think about all the abuse I have suffered. It’s nothing to me and what other people have chosen to do to me is not a reflection of me in any Way. It is nothing. Nothing to me. I am still me and they are bullies and abusers that try to whine that they are really the hero’s in life who attacked me to save someone else. The entire time I have known my BFF she has been watching me and waiting for her mind to figure out the truth about me even though I am an open book and I speak the truth as often as possible. She comes from a very oppressive place. Her culture revolves around abuse so for her, she can’t even see much less understand how awfully mean she is as her personality. It is nothing to her. But she is a sheep. She can not make judgements on her own. What she does is she looks to other “better” people in life to take her cues from. Don’t we all do that? ***sure*** The problem is that some people are so stupid that they realize they MUST always find a “better” person to “follow” and so at the end of the day, who should this lady be following around in life? The fragile victim, or the person that has everything the fragile victim had taken from her? I am strong AF and other strong people can follow me around and we can feed off of our combined energies, but weak people do not see the real benefits to my friendship because to be in my circle you have to be capable of giving and weak people have much less to give. Well babes, I am not giving out pennies, babes I’m throwing diamonds 💎 and I want to be walking next to other people throwing diamonds 💎 so that we don’t have to worry about bending down to pick any up. Let our diamonds be so bright they gotta throw shade just to survive. 💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎🤣 🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫🦫